Adult Sibling Grief Community

Hi Kerrylee… Thank you for posting, you certainly have been on a long lonley journey, at the moment I can’t imagine 11 years without my beloved brother, 2 yeard doesn’t seem real! I’m so sorry that you have needed to find us here and that you haven’t been able to find support earlier. This site has been such a help to me over the past years,…[Read more]

Sending you great big hugs… you are in my thoughts as I know how you feel. My brother died suddenly 2years ago last week, I never got to say goodbye either and my heart is broken…. Now I think I’ll always carry this loss and sadness with me <3

I’ll be thinking of you… I know how hard it can be as I’m apporaching my brothers 2nd anniversary. I remember hoping that the first anniversary would mark the start of accepting the huge loss and being able to cope with this new life…but it’s not that simple. There have been many times on this journey that I’ve taken steps back into grief…[Read more]

A beautiful post, it sums up how most of us feel since our lived changed forever. I’m sure she’s very proud of you and sending you her love and strength to get throught this difficult time xxx Thinking of you xxx

So sorry for your loss, yet pleased you’ve found us here as we do understand and can hopefully offer you some support. Thank you for sharing your story, you are not alone in feeling like its a bad dream…even 2 years later I still get those unreal experiences. Reading your post it brings back those early days, I’ve got tears flowing too. Just…[Read more]

I remember writing just the same message here at my brothers first year anniversary, time means nothing anymore and I wouldn’t wish this grief on anyone… I’m now approaching 2 years and still have these feelings, so much has happened in this time, yet I remember those days as if it were yesterday, I can’t believe how long it’s been since I…[Read more]

Hope your counselling was a positive experience for you. I’ve been thinking of you xx

Hugs to you <3
I feel exactly the same after 21 months without my brother. Still broken, lost and drifting.. How have I got here? How can I carry on?

There are no words that’ll help today, you just have to find you way through it. But please know here we are thinking of you and sending you a hug… you are not alone <3

Love this song too <3
I hope it make you smile as you remember him. Thinking of you Hayley

I think the title says it all… Love & hugs to you Nikki xxx

I understand your pain, as do so many others who have found there way here. I hope that we can offer you some support through your difficult days with words of kindness and understanding. We’re here if you need to talk, much love to you xxx

Days like these are so hard and unfair. People don’t understand how we are feeling without our loved ones. Birthdays/holidays are all so pointless now yet others expect you to be enjoying these special days. How can we celebrate without them, it just can’t be the same, any happy moment is always tinged with the bitter-sweet regret of what…[Read more]

Welcome to the site Claire, so sorry that you’ve had to come & find us here. I hope you’ll find some comfort and support here as losing a sibling is not understood by most of society. Here people will understand your grief and the pain you are going through. It’s not a club anyone would want to join, but the friends I’ve made here have helped…[Read more]