Adult Sibling Grief Community

Hi Kerrylee – I’m sorry you had to go for so long feeling alone with your grief, but I’m glad you finally found a place where you know others know what you’re feeling. I lost my sister a year and a half ago and it’s still unreal sometimes. I lost my best friend. We grew up together and were supposed to grow old together. It’s so unfair.…[Read more]

LIsa – I’m so sorry for the loss of your brother. You have definitely come to the right place. Finding this site has been so helpful. The other thing that helped me was going to a counselor. I found a really good one and she never acted like she had the ‘answers’ b/c we all know there are no real answers about death, but she just talked me…[Read more]

Hi Janette – I’m so sorry for your loss. My sister passed away from breast cancer at the age of 33, so I know all too well about the chemo, radiation and trials and all that. At the end, it seemed as though her cancer was feeding off of the chemo and I just couldn’t believe how fast it was spreading. I shake my head now thinking about it, so I…[Read more]

Just wanted to say that I’m sorry for the loss of your sister. I lost my sister a year and a half ago as well.

I’m glad you felt better after writing what you wrote. This is such an important site….I know we all feel that. Take care.

I try to stay as busy as I can so that i don’t think about it. That helps sometimes, sometimes not. I hope you still keep your faith… I know b/c of my sister being gone, everything is questioned, but I have to believe that I’ll be with my sister again when it’s my time….and that means I have to have faith….I have to believe….

Oh Shoa – I am so sorry….I can feel the pain and heartache in your words and I am so very sorry. Reading what you wrote just made me breakdown in tears b/c you miss your sister so much, and I miss mine. I wish your pain could go away… I am thinking about you and praying that you find some healing…. Hugs….

hi jenne – i’m sorry you have to be here as well, but i am glad you found this site. it is nice to come to a place where you know others understand what you’re going thru…it’s comforting. hope it helps you as it has helped me.

Andrea – As I read your post, it brought me back to a year ago Friday, August 27, when I got a call in the morning from my brother-in-law that he took my younger sister, who was battling stage IV breast cancer, to the hospital b/c she couldn’t walk. I was supposed to go over to her house to be with her for the day since her husband had to…[Read more]

Hi Megan – I’m sorry for the loss of your sister. I lost my younger sister at the age of 33 to cancer. Just wanted to say I’m glad you found this site as others know the pain you feel…

Wendy – My heart goes out to you too. I’m so sorry. I have twins and the thought of leaving them breaks my heart. The torture he must have been battling to do that….I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s a wonderful picture of him. I’m glad you found this site…

I’m sorry for the loss of your brother and your other losses as well. There is a missing piece of ourselves when we lose a sibling, especially one that we were helping so much. I lost my sister to breast cancer…she was 33 years old. I took her to appts, made sure she was ok, etc. I talked to her everyday. It’s been over a year now and it’s…[Read more]

Erica I’m so sorry for your loss. It’s such awful circumstances. You’re in my thougths.

The only thing I can say is that I think unless someone has gone through the same thing, they don’t realize that we are still in pain from the loss, and will be for a long long time. They think since a little time has gone by that we’re “ok”. That will never be the case. I’m sorry that your friends are not reaching out to you. Those of us on…[Read more]

I am so sorry….I can feel your grief and dispair. I am so sorry. Please know that I am thinking about you. I wish it wasn’t true either. I wish I could wake up from this horrible nightmare and my sister was back as well. I wish….