HOLLY
@hlyne active 1 week ago-
HOLLY replied to the forum topic Physical Grief? in the group
Sibling Grief 1 week agoI have had so many physical symptoms since my younger sister passed 6 mths ago. I threw up daily for weeks. I could barely eat. that has just stopped recently and now i seem to always be hungry, i think of food […]
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HOLLY replied to the forum topic How are you treated by your friends? in the group
Sibling Grief 2 weeks, 1 day agoI felt like a horrible friend 3 years ago when my best friends dad passed away, i didnt know what to say, now i know that no one knows what to say to someone who has lost someone. Im thankful for her because she […]
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HOLLY replied to the forum topic How are you treated by your friends? in the group
Sibling Grief 2 weeks, 1 day agoI think the worst thing is when you see someone you havent seen in a long time, and you dont know if they know, its so akward. I dont even tell them, I cant say it for some reason, the words will not leave my […]
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HOLLY posted an update 2 weeks, 4 days ago
i have so much anxiety i can barely function. i feel like a walking giant ball of stress, i cant think i just want to cry, still all day. i am doing poorely at work, have been put on 90 day suspension for poor performance, i am surprised i can perform at all. i wish i could stay home all day. i dont want to even leave the house, i am afraid of…[Read more]
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HOLLY replied to the forum topic What do you miss the most about your sibling? in the group
Sibling Grief 1 month, 1 week agoI miss her calling me, miss the messages she would leave me, miss her stories, her laugh, her smile, her hugs, I miss her calling me lizzie(nickname she gave me) miss listening to music together, drinking coffee, […]
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HOLLY changed their profile picture 2 months, 2 weeks ago
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HOLLY replied to the forum topic Pictures in the group
Sibling Grief 2 months, 3 weeks agoMy sisters ex boyfriend made a disc w over 2000 pictures of my sister and pictures she had taken. My mother gave me some pictures she had taken on her phone of me and my sister eating at the olive garden with her. […]
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HOLLY posted an update in the group
Sibling Grief 2 months, 3 weeks agoI was at work today and in walks this girl, who from far away looked exactly like my sister. She was walking toward me and she looked like her. For a split second I thought Sarah, then I realized and thought it cant be her its impossible. As she came closer I could see her face more clearly and of course it wasnt her, but it was the worst feeling…[Read more]
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Im so sorry Holly that must have been rough. It really sucks
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Hi Holly. I know exactly how that feels- I’ve seen 2 Kate look-alikes since she died a year and a half ago and I do a double take then I want to scream at the top of my lungs and curl up in a ball!! It definitely is getting harder…but I keep on truckin cause I know one day it will make me happy to see someone who looks like her; like a sweet reminder.
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HOLLY replied to the forum topic birthdays in the group
Sibling Grief 3 months agoMy sisters birthday was thursday. My sisters fiance(wierd I dont know what to call him now) and my mom and me spent the day together. We went to eat at one of her favorite places, and then came to my house and […]
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HOLLY replied to the forum topic Avoidance in the group
Sibling Grief 3 months agoHey Kailynn, I am so sorry about your sister. I lost my little sister just over 3 mths ago. She died in her sleep at 22. I am 7 years older than her. We always had a weird relationship. Our age differnce made it […]
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HOLLY posted a new activity comment 3 months, 1 week ago
In reply to: Kay Johnson posted an update My brother died almost 11 months ago. I’m trying to decide if I should get an autopsy report. Would help for closure purposes or will it just bring up more unanswered questins? Does […] ViewI dont think it helped me. My sister died of an overdose. I dont tell people, just say she died in her sleep, it hurts me to think about. I know it was an accident. My mother feels anger towards my siters fiance, he had taken the same pills as her and they fell asleep on the couch. he woke up and she didnt. I still have so many questions, why how,…[Read more]
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HOLLY posted a new activity comment 3 months, 1 week ago
In reply to: Donna posted an update in the group Sibling Grief I guess I am still in shock, it has only been 8 days sinced he was killed (car accident) i seem to think its him when the phone rings dont know why…………..thanks […] ViewSo sorry for your loss Donna. I lost my sister almost 3 mths ago and still feel the shock sometimes, I still hear the news being broke to me, and have to think of something else quickly. There are no words… but this site is helpful, people here understand. Take care of yourself, sending prayers your way
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HOLLY replied to the forum topic Pictures in the group
Sibling Grief 3 months, 1 week agoI am obsessed with pictures of her, but I am sad because I dont have many pics of the two of us together. I dont really take pics, and alot of hers and mine have been lost over the years, I have lots from […]
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HOLLY replied to the forum topic I'm new- My story (It's long) in the group
Sibling Grief 3 months, 1 week agoAlisha I understand the guilt and not knowing for SURE how he felt. I just lost my younger sister in Nov. She was 22. I was talking with her and had seen her recently before, but 2009-2010 she was dating someone i […]
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HOLLY replied to the forum topic Picking up his remains in the group
Sibling Grief 3 months, 2 weeks agoI feel so sad, I cry everyday too still. I go to work, and seem normal, at first I felt like people could see my grief or maybe that they should like I wanted to wear black and not have to interact. I wanted to […]
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HOLLY posted a new activity comment 3 months, 2 weeks ago
In reply to: mouse replied to the forum topic Picking up his remains in the group Sibling Grief Holly, the garden sounds really nice. I’m sure you know your sister better than anyone so I think you made the right choice for […] Viewthank you mouse
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HOLLY replied to the forum topic Quotes on Grief in the group
Sibling Grief 3 months, 2 weeks agolove this
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HOLLY replied to the forum topic Picking up his remains in the group
Sibling Grief 3 months, 2 weeks agoMy grandmaws ashes went to a botanical garden that she had loved and used to bring my mom to when she was little, It has beautiful flowers and a waterfall. My mom took my sister and me when we were young too, and […]
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HOLLY replied to the forum topic Picking up his remains in the group
Sibling Grief 3 months, 2 weeks agoI know the feelings you have my sister was also cremated,she passed Nov 2011. They actually brought her to my house because the funeral home we used was a ways away, but anyways my mom came over and my husband […]
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HOLLY posted a new activity comment 3 months, 3 weeks ago
In reply to: AshleyMS posted an update in the group Tributes and Memorials When tomorrow starts without me, and I’m not there to see, If the sun should rise and find your eyes, all filled with tears for me, I wish so much you […] ViewBeautiful. miss my Lizzie so much
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Yes Holly, I felt all those things and still do but not as intense. It’s been 2 1/2 years for me. It really takes over your whole soul. Be patient with yourself as best as you can. It is normal to feel this way after a sudden loss such as yours. Therapy and support groups who specialize in sudden death (I am in a homicide only group) helps…[Read more]
Holly, I agree with Deborah 100%. Everyone handles grief differently. Our counselor told us some people are better after 6 months and for some it is 6 years. I am finally feeling a little better (My brother has been gone almost 10 months). I felt exactly like you did. I would go to school and be somewhat ok, but when I got home I would fall…[Read more]
Hi Holly, I know your torment all too well. Your lack of any purpose at the moment is driving your mind mad and it’s winding itself tighter and tighter. With no where to go, no work and no one to divert your mind you’re anxiety and panic is fueling itself. It’s no longer about losing your sister, its about having lost yourself.
I know that…[Read more]